5 sex positions for if it's your partner's first time

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The Lover's Knot

The best thing about being someone's first is that you're, like, instructing them on exactly how you want to be fucked. If that's slow and passionate, lie on your sides facing them with your leg draped over their hips. You can pull them toward you with your leg or they can gently move against you. The position forces you to move slowly for intense, slow-burn passion.

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The Missionary Slide

Missionary is a classic for a reason. But instead of them jumping you and being done, start with outercourse—lube up the bottom of their shaft so they can slide it along your vulva (it's like regular p-in-v but p doesn't actually go inside v.) Feels amazing to you and helps him last longer. Wait 'til you're both so turned on you can barely take it, then let them slip inside you. 

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The Strummer

If you really want to show them the time of their life, put your knees on either side and assume the straddle position. Use your hand to rub your vulva and control your thrusts. They get a sensual overload — the visual of you doing your thing on top, the new sensation of being inside you, the general OMG-I-am-having-sex. Bonus: they get highly useful lessons on exactly how you like to be touched.

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The Swan Dive

If it's her first time, sit in bed, facing each other with your legs out and your partner semi-sitting on your lap. Gear up with lots of face-to-face intimate connection and close contact, then start stroking your partner's clitoris. You can do this simultaneously, but for their first time it might be best to take turns. (If you're looking for something more penetrative, a lovely ride on a double ended toy works, too.)

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The Two-Timer

Sit on your partner's lap facing them for a slow ride/make out session. Even if they're so excited they last for two seconds—highly possible, please remain calm—they might be able to go another round. Keep kissing, working your way down to see if a little oral revives them for round two.